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| The fireworks festival at Gwangali Beach was an amazing sight to behold. |
In Busan, we've met foreigners who have lived in Korea for multiple years and/or have lived here for a while, gone back to their home countries, and then returned to Korea for yet another job. Sometimes, I'm boggled by this mindset because I just cannot relate.
One of my co-workers jokingly commented that a lot of foreigners who reside in South Korea are people who couldn't "make it" or fit in at their home countries. If you go to any
restaurant/pub/eatery that is foreigner-owned, the majority of its patrons are non-Koreans. Granted, some are just regular people who want a change of pace from Korean food, but after considerable observation, one notices a particular type of person: bearded white guys sporting hiking backpacks and slouchy, well-worn clothing. Then, there are the types who come here for love...or seemed to have found it regardless of previous intentions. Foreign guys with Korean girlfriends is a super common sight here.
Believe it or not, spotting other foreigners on the street can invoke feelings of awkwardness. Thoughts such as, "Ooh, are they American? Are they here to teach English too? Do I say hi? Or, are they Russian, which means they may not speak English at all? (A couple months ago, I was approached by a Russian girl, and once she realized I didn't speak the Russian language, that conversation was immediately over. I thought....I'd make small talk if only we spoke the same language)!
As of right now, this is how we feel: when Pepper and I return to the states, we probably won't want to travel outside the United States for a while, and definitely not to another country whose primary language isn't English. Learning new words and miming gestures is fun for a while, but sometimes, the stress just becomes too much.














